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When a Toxic Leader Derails an SAP Project
A 5-Step Playbook to Regain Control—Even When You Have No Authority
You check your inbox. Another email about the procurement delays.
You already know what it says. Your team is stuck.
As the project manager for Saption Consulting, the IT service provider leading the S/4HANA implementation at Uniqcorn Beverages, you’re responsible for ensuring smooth project execution. But now, a serious problem threatens to derail progress:
💥 The procurement manager at Uniqcorn is causing chaos.
Aaron, recently promoted to lead the procurement team, lacks the SAP expertise needed to support the project. But instead of admitting this, he’s publicly pointing out every minor mistake your consultants make—while withholding the input they need to move forward.
Your team is frustrated. Meetings have turned into unproductive critique sessions. Consultants stop engaging, avoiding conversations with Aaron altogether.
📉 The result? The project is slipping, and deadlines are at risk.
The Real Problem: You’re Expected to Solve the Conflict, But You Have No Authority
Aaron doesn’t report to you. You can’t force him to cooperate.
Lisa, the project manager representing Uniqcorn Beverages, could step in—but she doesn’t. She either doesn’t see the issue or prefers to avoid conflict.
You’re caught in the middle.
❌ You can’t confront Aaron directly—it’ll only escalate tensions.
❌ You can’t force Lisa to act—she’s avoiding the problem.
❌ You can’t let this continue—your team’s morale is dropping fast.
🚨 So what do you do?
This is Where Smart Project Managers Win
In this post, you’ll step into the role of the project manager at Saption Consulting and experience first-hand how to navigate this conflict—without direct authority.
👉 You’ll follow the exact steps needed to take control of the situation, de-escalate tensions, and keep your SAP project on track.
✅ You’ll learn how to neutralise a toxic stakeholder without direct confrontation.
✅ You’ll use structured escalation to force action—without making it personal.
✅ You’ll turn passive-aggressiveness into accountability.
✅ And by the end of this story, you’ll have a practical playbook to apply in your own projects.
Let’s begin.
You log into the morning project status call, already knowing what to expect.
Your team is supposed to be discussing procurement data readiness, but instead, the meeting quickly turns into a blame game.
Aaron, the procurement manager at Uniqcorn Beverages, leans back in his chair and sighs.
“Look, I’m trying to support this project, but your consultants keep making errors in the data requirements. Until they get their act together, I can’t move forward.”
The tension in the call is palpable.
Aaron’s tone isn’t outright aggressive, but it’s laced with passive-aggressive frustration. He makes sure that every delay sounds like it’s your team’s fault.
Your lead consultant, Priya, jumps in.
“We’ve provided the required templates three times. We need your team’s input to move forward.”
Aaron smirks.
“Then maybe your templates aren’t as clear as you think.”
You watch as Priya’s body language shifts—she folds her arms, her voice tightens. She’s had enough. And you can’t blame her.
Identify the Real Power Dynamics
At this moment, you realise this isn’t just a misunderstanding.
Aaron isn’t asking for clarification—he’s deflecting. He’s stalling because he doesn’t know what to do and is afraid to admit it.
📌 The real issue isn’t the templates. The issue is that Aaron was promoted beyond his level of experience and is compensating by acting as if the project’s problems are someone else’s fault.
📌 Your team is disengaging. Every time Aaron publicly undermines them, they lose motivation to interact with him. And that means critical procurement input isn’t being provided.
📌 Lisa, the client’s PM, isn’t stepping in. She’s either unaware of the issue or unwilling to challenge Aaron—making it your problem to solve.
💡 At this point, many project managers would try direct confrontation.
❌ Bad move. That would only escalate the situation, making Aaron double down on his defensiveness.
Instead, you need a smarter approach.
Shift the Conflict from Emotional to Documented
Aaron thrives in meetings because verbal criticism is easy to ignore. He can control the conversation, throw vague accusations, and keep the blame on your team.
📢 You decide to take that power away.
Instead of arguing, you shift everything to written documentation.
💡 You send a follow-up email summarising the meeting discussion:
Subject: Procurement Input for S/4HANA Implementation – Next Steps
Hi Aaron,
Thanks for today’s discussion. To ensure clarity, here are the next steps:
– Procurement data requirements were provided on [date].
– We require input by [deadline] to proceed with system configuration.
– If there are concerns about the templates, please specify exact sections requiring modification.
Let us know if any clarifications are needed. Otherwise, we’ll proceed with best-practice assumptions if no input is received by the deadline.
Best,
[Your Name]
This email serves two strategic purposes:
✅ It removes emotional conflict. Instead of engaging in verbal arguments, everything is now on record.
✅ It forces accountability. If Aaron doesn’t respond, your team has justification to move forward.
Aaron’s Response: Ignoring Documentation
The first time you do this, Aaron ignores the email. He continues making vague complaints in meetings, hoping the issue will disappear.
You stick to your strategy.
Every time he complains, you reference the documented requests:
📢 “Aaron, we summarised the next steps in the project update email. Do you have feedback on the specific requirements?”
Aaron realises he’s losing control over the conversation.
You sense his frustration growing—but without a way to deflect, he’s now on the defensive.
But he still isn’t providing the required input.
Now, it’s time for the next step.
Aaron hasn’t changed his approach.
Even after multiple follow-up emails, he continues to dodge responsibility. He still hasn’t provided the required procurement input, but he’s making sure the blame doesn’t land on him.
In every status meeting, he repeats the same line:
“The procurement team is happy to help, but we’re still waiting on clearer instructions from Saption’s consultants.”
Your team is frustrated. The end client’s project manager, Lisa, remains silent—letting the issue drag on instead of stepping in.
You can’t afford to wait for Lisa to take action.
⏳ Every day wasted is another step closer to project failure.
Reframe the Conflict as a Project Risk, Not a Personal Problem
At this point, many project managers would escalate the issue as a personality conflict.
❌ Bad move.
If you escalate by saying,
“Aaron is delaying progress and blocking our team from moving forward,”
you’ve made it about his behaviour—which Lisa can ignore or downplay.
💡 Instead, you need to remove emotions from the equation.
You shift the narrative entirely:
This is no longer about Aaron. This is about Uniqcorn Beverages’ project risk.
Document the Risk in Formal Project Reporting
📌 You log the issue in the RAID (Risks, Assumptions, Issues, Dependencies) log:
Risk: Delayed procurement input affecting key project milestones.
Impact: If procurement data is not provided by [date], system configuration will be blocked, delaying [go-live date].
Mitigation Plan: Proceed with best-practice assumptions if no input is received.
📢 You update Lisa (client PM) via email:
Subject: Risk Alert – Procurement Input Delay Impacting [Milestone]
Hi Lisa,
We have logged a project risk regarding outstanding procurement input required for system configuration.
🚨 Risk: If procurement data is not received by [date], key milestones will be impacted, affecting the planned go-live.
Proposed Mitigation: We will proceed with best-practice assumptions if no input is provided. Please let us know how you’d like to handle this.Best,
[Your Name]
How This Forces Action
✅ Lisa now has to respond. The issue is no longer about Aaron—it’s about Uniqcorn Beverages’ project risk, which reflects on Lisa’s performance.
✅ Aaron’s authority is undermined. He can no longer dictate the process—decisions are moving forward, with or without his input.
✅ Your team regains control. If no procurement data arrives, you proceed with best practices. No more waiting indefinitely.
Aaron’s Reaction: He’s Losing Control
📢 Aaron is now in a corner.
Instead of being in charge of the procurement process, he’s on the defensive.
In the next meeting, Lisa finally speaks up:
“Aaron, can your team provide an initial draft by the end of the week?”
Aaron shifts uncomfortably. He wasn’t expecting Lisa to step in.
“Uh… yeah, we can put something together.”
You know it won’t be perfect. But that’s not the point. The project is moving forward.
Aaron has finally committed to providing a draft of the procurement data.
But you know what’s coming next.
⏳ Deadline day arrives… and there’s no document.
You send a polite follow-up. No response.
By the afternoon, Aaron finally replies:
“We’re still reviewing the requirements. It’s taking longer than expected.”
You suppress a sigh. This is exactly what you expected.
📌 You’ve seen this tactic before—he’s stalling again.
The difference is, this time, you’re prepared.
Use Structured Escalation to Force Action
💡 This is where many project managers make a mistake.
❌ They escalate in frustration:
“Aaron is blocking the project, and we need this data now!”
This approach backfires.
It makes you look like you’re being aggressive instead of focusing on solutions. Worse, Lisa may still try to ignore the issue.
✅ Instead, you escalate by shifting the responsibility onto the client’s leadership team.
Escalate Without Emotion—Using Project Governance
📢 You escalate the RAID log issue to the project steering committee.
Instead of blaming Aaron, you make it about project risk and governance:
Subject: Steering Committee Update – Procurement Data Risk Mitigation
Hi Lisa,
As per our previous discussions, procurement data input is outstanding and now classified as a high-risk issue.
🚨 Risk: Delays in procurement data input are impacting system configuration timelines, which may affect the overall go-live schedule.
Proposed Next Steps:
– If procurement data is not provided by [new deadline], Saption will proceed with best-practice assumptions.
– Please confirm if this approach aligns with Uniqcorn’s preferred risk mitigation strategy.
Best,
[Your Name]
How This Forces Lisa to Step In
✅ Lisa can’t ignore the issue anymore. Since the risk is now logged in steering committee reports, her leadership team will expect answers.
✅ The escalation isn’t personal—it’s about project risk. This prevents Aaron from deflecting the issue as an interpersonal conflict.
✅ You provide a solution instead of just highlighting a problem. By saying “We will proceed with best-practice assumptions unless otherwise advised”, you put the decision in Uniqcorn’s hands.
Lisa’s Reaction: Now It’s Her Problem
By the next morning, Lisa responds:
“Thanks for flagging this. I’ll connect with Aaron and ensure the procurement team provides an update within 48 hours.”
📌 For the first time, Lisa is taking responsibility.
📢 And just like that, Aaron is no longer the gatekeeper.
Lisa’s leadership will now hold her accountable for any further delays. If she doesn’t act, the risk is on her.
Aaron, knowing Lisa is now involved, finally submits the procurement data.
Aaron finally submitted the procurement data.
But just as expected, it’s incomplete and full of errors.
Your consultants review the document and quickly realise that large chunks of data are missing. Some sections contradict previous agreements. The information is barely usable.
You know what’s coming next.
📢 Aaron is setting up the next round of delays.
In the next meeting, he’ll claim:
“We delivered the procurement input, but now your team needs to fix their data mapping issues.”
He’s already positioning himself as the victim—pushing the responsibility back onto Saption Consulting.
But this time, you won’t let him regain control.
Keep Moving Forward—Even If the Difficult Person Won’t Change
You have two options:
❌ Option 1: Go back to Aaron, demand a revised version, and get caught in another endless delay loop.
✅ Option 2: Work with what you have, fill in the gaps with SAP best practices, and keep the project moving.
💡 You choose Option 2.
📌 Instead of waiting for Aaron to cooperate, you take control of the process.
Make the Difficult Person React to You
📢 You call a meeting—but this time, you take a different approach.
Instead of asking for revisions, your consultants present a completed procurement data model based on SAP best practices.
“Since some procurement data was missing, we made assumptions based on standard S/4HANA configurations. Here’s the proposed setup we’ll use unless otherwise advised.”
How This Shift Changes the Dynamic
✅ Aaron is no longer in control. Instead of blocking progress, he now has to react to a solution that is already moving forward.
✅ If he wants changes, he has to provide clear, documented feedback. He can’t just say, “This isn’t right.” He must now state exactly what needs adjusting.
✅ Lisa sees that your team is taking ownership. If Aaron refuses to engage, it’s now his failure—not yours.
📢 The project moves forward—whether Aaron cooperates or not.
Aaron’s Reaction: He’s Lost His Leverage
At first, Aaron resists.
“We can’t just assume procurement processes! We need to review this properly.”
But instead of arguing, you respond calmly:
📢 “Of course. Please provide specific corrections in writing by [date]. Otherwise, we’ll proceed with this model.”
📌 This forces Aaron into a lose-lose situation:
- If he doesn’t respond, the system is configured without his input.
- If he demands changes, he must finally provide concrete feedback instead of vague complaints.
The power dynamic has shifted.
Aaron has lost control of the process.
The Project Moves Forward—Without Waiting for Aaron to Change
Over the next few weeks, something interesting happens:
📌 Aaron slowly stops resisting.
📌 Lisa engages more, knowing she’s accountable for project risk.
📌 Your consultants regain confidence, no longer fearing public criticism.
📌 The S/4HANA implementation stays on track.
💡 Aaron never becomes a great collaborator. But that no longer matters—because the project is moving forward without him.
The Conflict Resolution Playbook – Key Lessons and Takeaways
You did it.
Despite passive-aggressive resistance, missing procurement data, and leadership avoidance, you successfully navigated the conflict without formal authority—and kept the S/4HANA implementation on track.
💡 Aaron never changed. Lisa never became a proactive leader.
📢 But that didn’t stop you from driving the project forward.
So, what made the difference?
Your Five-Step Playbook for Managing Conflict Without Authority
🚀 Step 1: Identify the Real Power Dynamics
✅ Recognise when conflict isn’t about a misunderstanding—it’s about control and influence.
✅ If someone is withholding input, they aren’t just difficult—they’re leveraging power.
✅ Focus on who has the real authority to force a decision.
📌 In this story: You realised that Aaron wasn’t just delaying; he was covering up his inexperience. And Lisa, the only person who could challenge him, was avoiding the problem.
🚀 Step 2: Shift the Conflict from Emotional to Documented
✅ Move all discussions to written accountability (RAID logs, meeting minutes, action trackers).
✅ When someone makes vague complaints, ask for specific feedback in writing.
✅ Never engage in verbal power struggles—force clarity through documentation.
📌 In this story: Instead of arguing in meetings, you sent follow-up emails with clear deadlines. Aaron couldn’t deflect without exposing his lack of knowledge.
🚀 Step 3: Reframe the Conflict as a Project Risk, Not a Personal Problem
✅ If leadership is avoiding an issue, frame it as a business risk.
✅ Remove emotions—escalate in terms of project impact.
✅ Offer a clear mitigation plan so leadership has to respond.
📌 In this story: Instead of saying “Aaron is causing delays”, you escalated as “Procurement data is missing, and go-live is at risk.” Lisa could no longer ignore it.
🚀 Step 4: Use Structured Escalation to Force Action
✅ Escalate through governance processes (Steering Committees, RAID logs).
✅ Don’t demand action—make leadership responsible for choosing a mitigation plan.
✅ If leadership ignores the issue, document that decision so it’s clear who owns the risk.
📌 In this story: You brought the risk to the Steering Committee, shifting the accountability to Lisa. She was forced to intervene.
🚀 Step 5: Keep Moving Forward—Even If the Difficult Person Won’t Change
✅ Never wait for a difficult person to cooperate—proactively move the project forward.
✅ Present a completed solution and make them react to it.
✅ Shift control from blocking to executing.
📌 In this story: Instead of waiting for Aaron’s revisions, your team used SAP best practices to fill in the gaps and proceeded with the implementation. Aaron lost his leverage.
Final Thoughts: Leadership Is About Influence, Not Authority
You didn’t have formal power in this situation.
But by shifting the narrative, forcing accountability, and moving forward strategically, you led the project to success anyway.
📢 This is what real project leadership looks like.
It’s not about forcing people to cooperate. It’s about creating an environment where they have no choice but to follow the process.
What’s Your Experience?
Have you faced a similar situation in an SAP project? How did you handle it?
Drop a comment below—I’d love to hear your experiences.